But though this is the initial claim, everyone's point of view is not welcome. And if one view is not received with open arms, then what could be a healthy discourse, simply shuts down. Of course, there are things that shouldn't be compromised ...and it should be understood that not all is loving, and there's a tendency for that to quickly include us, as emotions soar. We may be wearing the same mask we perceive others to be wearing, but more critical is to not view the face that others are wearing as the face of the enemy.