But if we say we value other's choices, how true is that? Do we value the choices given us by the One who created us? We find that our choices are limited by the One who created us, and do we, who say we are loving and accepting ...do we lovingly accept the fact that our choices are limited, and do we lovingly accept the extent and degree to which they are limited? What it comes down to then, is do we extend our accusation towards others ...or do we accuse ourselves, in essence, admit that it is not others who are exclusively guilty of not loving, it is our own falling short of our love for our Creator. It is our Creator we are challenging ...and we should be careful not to align ourselves with the main challenger.